UUSMenderMediated messaging
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Start a room

Open a warm, moderated channel between two people.

This is where the messaging flow begins: private draft, mediated rewrite, invitation, and then a guided conversation inside the room.

Step 1

Set up the room

Pick who this is with, what the issue is, and how much gentleness you want the mediator to bring to the opening.

Search from the inbox or type the email/phone you want this handoff to start from.
Best for text-first invites and phone numbers.
Email and SMS options auto-switch from the contact field. In-app and Messages stay locked when you choose them.
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Step 2

What the mediator will do next

Protect your raw draft
Only you and the mediator see your original message.
Rewrite for safety and dignity
The opening will be softened into a respectful invitation to talk.
Invite the other person in
Once they accept, both of you get guided questions inside the same room.
Mediator preview

Likely opening summary

Reframed summary
I feel hurt and out of sync when decisions land after they are already made. I want us to have a small check-in before plans become final so I can...
Tone: Soft landing. Outcome: A fair plan we both actually feel good about.
  • Invite target: You can add this on the next step.
  • Handoff style: SMS link
  • Relationship lens: Partner
  • Guardrails active: 2